Monday, January 30, 2012

Book Tour ~ Not In The Heart

"Not In The Heart" by Chris Fabry


Publisher's Description: 
If your child needed a life-saving heart transplant, how far would you go to make it happen? How would you feel if a man convicted of murder offered his heart to your child? What if you discovered the man was innocent, but the only way your child could live was to hide the truth? “I’ve found the only thing I can control is how well I tell the story and follow the truth. . . . The truth will always lead you to a good place,” reflects Truman Wiley, the main character in Chris Fabry’s newest novel, Not in the Heart. Fabry passionately delves into hot topics such as capital punishment, gambling addiction and organ donation, leaving readers to examine their own lives and views.

My Thoughts: 
Truman Wiley is a character you love to hate.  He's got issues and plenty of them.  Having lost his high profile job with a news network, he is now estranged from his family, has a major gambling habit, is in debt and running from a loan shark, has lost his car and the cabin he was living in.  He is sarcastic, a dead beat dad and a missing in action husband who has not been there for his wife.  And his son is dying.  He is at the end of his rope when an opportunity to write the story of a man on death row comes his way.  Conley was convicted of murder and  is set to face death in one month.  Always maintaining his innocence and having had a prison conversion to Christianity, he has given up hope of having his sentence over-turned and wants to have something good come out of the situation.  He wants to donate his heart to a dying teen.  A dying teen who happens to be Truman's own son.  Truman reluctantly takes the job, not thrilled that anything to do with Christianity is involved, but the family also happens to go to his wife's church.  And he desperately needs the money.  As he starts looking into the death of the murdered hair dresser, he starts to come across evidence that could mean Conley has been telling the truth all along.  But telling the truth would mean that in all likelyhood  his son will die.

I thought this was an great, albiet heavy, read, one that brings you face to face with how you think and feel about some tough subjects.  I felt Fabry handled the personality of an addict very well.  While I have not had experience with a gambling addict, I have known and had to deal with a drug addict.  Totally narcissistic, running from all responsibility, all their decisions, even to the detriment of all their relationships,  being made through the lens of their addiction was told in a very realistic way. I thought the relationships between Truman, his wife and his children's viewpoints was told seamlessly as it went back and forth between them.  Yes, the personality made me mad but that is the nature of an addicted person.

Conley as the convicted murderer who maintains his innocence but is resolved with the fact he is going to die, also brings in the issues of capital punishment and of organ donation.  The author, through the story, shows the great need out there for organ donation and asks us how far are we willing to go with it?   The controversy of organ donation by death row prisoners is brought to the forefront and raises many questions.  Is it ethical?  Do people want the organs of who they might feel are "evil" and "bad".  Will more prisoners be killed quicker on death row just so their organs can be harvested for transplants?   All these questions and more are looked at through the story and makes you think where your stand is on very hot button issues.  The main character also wrestles with the fact that he may have evidence that in the very least would throw doubt onto the prisoner's conviction and that the revealing of it will remove all chances for his son and mean his death.

As a reader, I was faced with how I view other's shortcomings and failures as well as my own.  Is there a place for second chances even in the most dire of circumstances?

For a many layered story, I thought the author wove it together well, bringing an ending I was not expecting at all.  He held the suspense of what would happen right down to the wire and left me with lots to think about.  And that is a kind of story I like.  One that leaves me chewing on it for days to come.

The release of this book coincides with observances that create a greater awareness of the issues brought forward in the book. National Organ Donor Day, as designated by the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services, is set for February 14. The National Council on Problem Gambling (NCPG) will be observing Problem Gambling Awareness Week March 4-10, 2012.

Thanks to B&B Media Group for a free copy of this book for my honest review.  All opinions expressed are my own.

"Not in the Heart" may be purchased here and here.












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Friday, January 27, 2012

Friday's Fave Five #175



It's Friday and that means time to look for those things in your week that were blessings, moments of inspiration and uplifting.  If you're new join in with this great group of bloggers and share with us.  Guidelines are available here if you've never read them.

1.  Real homemade pie crust chicken pot pie.  I have made chicken pot pie before but always used the cheater's method (pre-made pie crust graciously supplied by the freezer section of ye olde grocery store) or I've tried alternative toppings such as corn bread topping or biscuit topping.  But while delicious and different, they are so not a Chicken Pot "Pie" to me.  But Monday I grabbed the bull, or lard as it were, by the horns and made a real, live pie crust.  And it turned out wonderful and flaky and not that hard at all.  Maybe it was the recipe I used but it had me wondering, "What was I so afraid of?"  Who knows I might just try a pie next, or a tart, empanadas or a quiche.  Look out world,  I've got pie crust confidence.  

2.  Celebrating my son's 20th!  Happy Birthday J!  You've become a young man who's made his mama darn proud!  I'm very thankful you're my son!

  

3.  Listening to my two oldest talk anatomy on the phone.   Both have anatomy classes for their courses, T for her kinesiology degree and J for his Emergency Medical Technician degree.  It's fun hearing all the big words for parts of the elbow, wrist, shoulder blades, etc., etc. being discussed.  And the encouragement that goes on back and forth between them does my heart good.

4.  Raspberry hot chocolate.  Creamy, chocolately, raspberry.  I don't think I need to say more.

5.  Moments of silence.  So welcome at times.  No tv, no background noise.  Just a silence where I can actually hear myself think.  Nice once in awhile.

What have your favorites been this week?  Please share with us.  And then add the link to your FFF post onto the Mr. Linky.  Then take a bit of time and visit the other participants if you can.  And then have a great weekned!

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Thursday, January 26, 2012

Missing: the last week

Holy Toledo!  Is it really Thursday already?  Where on earth did that week go?  It has just flitted right by without me even noticing.  Yikes.

So what have I done this week?  I better think this through or else I'll wonder if I was alive and breathing.

-T and I served at the soup kitchen on Saturday.  Always a pleasure doing that.  Then I had movie night with my sis and niece.  We watched "My Life in Ruins" with the actress of "My Big Fat Greek Wedding".  Love, love, loved My Big Fat Greek Wedding.  Hate, hate, hated My Life in Ruins.  When it was done we looked at each other and lamented we would never get back that hour and a half of our lives.  We questioned several times if we should switch movies but we kept thinking something would happen.  Was rated PG 13 on the back for violence.  About the only violence was when they drove the tour bus off the road.  Should have been rated PG 13 for all the sexual references.  
-Sunday I missed church because I was coughing so much.  But I managed to make Sticky Chicken for supper.  Yum, yum!

-Monday was work where one little duffer tested my patience to the max.  But I managed to make my first ever Chicken Pot Pie with home made crust.  The chicken from Sunday was a Hutterite chicken so it was huge with plenty for this second meal.  My crust turned out really good if I do say so myself.  Flaky and delicious.  The pie looked real ugly because I used way too big a dish and it all looked collapsed and the edges got waaaay too brown but it sure tasted good.  Went to bible study where I had trouble focusing as I put all my effort into trying not to cough up a lung.

-Tuesday was the usual run around of work (where above mentioned little duffer kept up his antics now compounded by his partner in crime, the only girl in dayhome), violin lessons for T on one end of town and then racing to make youth group which is on the other end of town.  Came home and coughed up the other  lung.

-After an interesting day of Bonnie & Clyde wreaking havoc yet again in dayhome, Wednesday I did my Costco run.  Two hours of shopping, unloading and putting away later, I realized I forgot the cat litter.  And the coffee.  Guess I'll be going back because neither cat nor I can live without our essentials.  Got to bed at midnight because T. worked and had to be picked up at 11:30.

-So here we are at today.  So far, so tired.  Bonnie & Clyde are restraining themselves.  So far.  We'll see how the day pans out.

What an exciting life I lead.  LOL.  But it is life.  The one I am given for this time. One filled with some trials, but lots of love.  Some missteps, but God's grace to help me through them.  Some challenges, some triumphs. A life like most of us lead.  I'm so thankful for this life God has bestowed.

How has your week been going?

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Friday, January 20, 2012

Friday's Fave Five #174


Hi everyone!  Welcome to Friday's Fave Five.   It's been a frosty week around these parts but there is still lots to be thankful for.  Please join us as we look for our blessings in our weeks, whether the week was hard or easy.  It changes our attitude and outlook as we find those small blessings that carry us through.  If you've never done a Fave Five post, there's some guidelines here.  Then just join right on in!

1.  Tomorrow's forecast.  Around here they say if you don't like the weather, just wait a minute.  And as overnight as this plunge into the deep freeze was for this last week, the forecast is going from -24*C (-11*F)       to a balmy 5*C (41*F) by tomorrow morning.

2.  Cars that started in the deep freeze.  Everybody's cars here started with no problems all week long.  WITHOUT being plugged in!  Now that is a huge blessing!  Nothing more frustrating than having to be to work or school and one's car won't start.  Everyone got where they needed to be right on time!

3.  Orange juice.  The not from concentrate juice you find in bottles in the dairy coolers.  It's been going down really good this week as I've been fighting different variations of a cold since before Christmas.  I usually hardly ever get sick, but this year it's been a stinker to get rid of.  Probably because up until this week the nasty germs haven't had a good freeze to kill them off.  ;v)

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4.  My slow cooker.  How I love this appliance.  I think I've used it 3 times already this week.  So easy to just throw the ingredients in and forget about it until supper time and then have a yummy home cooked dinner all ready to go.

5.  Cozy slippers.  Given to me for my birthday by my 17 year old.  So wonderful this week when it's been so cold.  Mine are a much nicer purplely burgundy color.  But you get the idea  of coziness!


                                                     
  What have been your favorites from your week?  Don't forget to sign your URL from your post and not your home page onto the Mr. Linky so that others can find your FFF easily!  Have a great weekend everyone!                                                                                                                                                                  
                                                                                                                                 
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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Can we get a little balance here?

Dear Mr. Weatherman:

Okay, when I said I would rather have snow than wind, Mr. Weatherman, I think you may have misunderstood me.  In all my lamenting and complaining about the category 1 hurricane winds that you have sent in the last couple of months, I certainly didn't mean for you to do this.  A little snow, a little coolness turning to cold gradually over time would have been nice.  But this jump from record setting warm days in December and beginning of January to -27* C (-17*F), with a wind chill taking it to -37*C ( -35*F) , literally overnight has been a bit of shock, don't ya think?   Sure I like the crunch of the snow under my boots.  And I really don't mind shoveling or brushing the car off, but my patio doors with frost?  On the INSIDE?   Or the cars barely starting?  Or icicles hanging from my nose and eyelashes?   Not so much.  Please see to this matter as soon as possible and find a wee bit of balance please?

Yours Sincerely,

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Monday, January 16, 2012

Menu Plan Monday

It has gone from record setting warm weather to feeling like we've been plunged into the arctic around here.  Virtually overnight.  No such thing as slowing easing into the cold.  Nope.  Just a shocking plunge.   Today it is -22*C (-8*F).  Brrr.  So my mind is thinking a lot along the soup, casserole and comfort food lines for this weeks menu.

Monday:  crockpot maple ham (didn't happen last week),  scalloped potatoes, brocolli cauliflower mix


Tuesday:  crockpot chicken stew, buns


Wednesday:  Serbian Ground Beef, salad


Thursday:  slowcooker beef and gravy, rice, peas


Friday:  leftover buffet


Saturday:  open


Sunday:  40 clove garlic chicken (family fave & my most searched post), herbed noodles, baby carrots

Hopefully this menu will warm us from the inside out!

Linking up with Organizing Junkie 

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Friday, January 13, 2012

Friday's Fave Five #173



Welcome to the 173rd edition of Friday's Fave Five.  Please join in as week to week we look for the good things we have been blessed with in our lives.  In the good and the hard weeks, we look for those things that have uplifted us, made us smile, gave us a blessing.  

1.  Heating Pad.  Hubby surprised me with a Dr. Clark Far Infrared Heating Pad for Christmas because of my ongoing tight shoulder blade and neck muscles.  And boy oh boy, I've been making good use of it.  It was a really thoughtful gift, one I hadn't ask for, and was a complete surprise.  But one that is most appreciated and this week has been a favorite!
2.  A good massage.  Along the same lines as #1.  With my crazy tight muscles a good massage with my therapist who knows how to get right in there and break up those knots in invaluable.  And bonus, she lets me sit in her massage chair for half an hour before my appointment even begins.  So good.

3.  Chocolate Mint Truffle Coffee Cream.   The new limited edition flavor around my area.  Yummy.  I only let myself have a cup as a treat a couple times a week because I could so get addicted.  But those two cups are really looked forward to!

4.  A day without wind.  It was so nice yesterday to have a day with wind blowing or howling.  So thankful for that.

5.  New Jammies.  There is something about a new pair of jammies.  Soft and comfortable.  Not all stretched out and faded.  Fitting just right.

What are you thankful for this week?  Join in and share by linking your specific post onto the Mr. Linky.

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